baby bumps the table!

Parenting

A mother was talking to her friend about her son. at first, i didn't intend to hear about that although they sometimes use their own language, java language, so i can't understand. But most of their language is indonesian so i got it. And it's a lesson for me to keep for my own knowledge when i have family someday. So i keep listening to the conversation.

Lesson no. 1
If your child bumps into something, let's say a table. most of the parent would say to the child, 'oh, don't cry, let me hit the table back, the table is naughty!'
A friend say it doesn't educate the child correctly. The parent should blame the child, not the table, because of this. she continued suggesting to say, 'look, you have to walk with right, don't be hurry, that's why you get bumbed, okay, walk calmly next time!'

So if you have a child or a relative who still in his growing period, teach them to be responsible for himself. Don't easily blame other person, or more irrationally blame it to a thing.

This is the end of parenting lesson part 1.
See you in part 2!
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